How to: Win the Heart of a Lesbian Libra

She may appear cool and demure, but rest assured Libras are playful and passionate — and many of them love to be dominated. In good time, of course. As a lover, you bring pros and cons to the game, and it’s going to take her some time to sort through which are which. She’s a social animal, so be prepared to tag along to her favorite nightspots so she can show you off to her friends. Wear something pretty and buy a round of shots — trust me, this will stand you in good stead the next day, when she solicits her friends’ opinions. She’ll never send you away without a fair trial, nor will she simply invite you in. First, you will have to play a delicate game two steps forward, one step back. Whether you win or loose, you’ll have a fun time trying to balance Libra’s scales.

Don’t let me convince you Libra is cold — far from it, her sign is in the seventh house of partnerships. She people for conversation, and to admire her luscious lips and winning dimples. A Libra wants nothing more to balance out her life with a committed partner, one who can draw out her better qualities. In pursuit of that goal, she’s an artist of love, stylish and sensual. She may attract you with her languid walk and easy charm, but it’s up to you lure her from her pedestal. If you can engage her in a long, constructive conversation, you’re halfway there. Never try to argue with a Libra, especially during courtship — nothing could be as unattractive as an unruly temper.

Follow up by sending her flowers at work; it may seem like a cliche, but she won’t be able to resist the attention. When you’re ready to seal the deal, take her out for inventive cocktails and her favorite DJ. A relaxing night of fun will stimulate her playful side — she may even share her toys with you. In bed and life, Libra likes to balance things out, so she’ll make sure you’re both satisfied. She’ll enjoy the equality of the classic 69; if you’re both feeling limber and adventurous, try the cat’s cradle. Just don’t leave her hanging, or you’re liable to end up in jail.

What To Expect On A Lesbian Libra Date