How to: Win the Heart of a Lesbian Sagittarius

Ever the deadly archer, Sagittarius aims straight for the heart — but is seldom pierced in return. If her independence drew you in, it might be what sends you drifting away. Any lover who thinks it’s time to start nesting with a Sagittarius after a few sexy romps is in for a rude awakening. Sagittarius rules the ninth house of philosophy, so there’s bound to be plenty more exploration and questions, including: What’s the hurry? Why destroy the mystery? And, most important: Why should I give up my freedom for you?

So hold off on taking her to meet your parents until, say, the 112th date. Any attempts to forge a commitment before the time is ripe will be seen as an evil plot perpetrated by the patriarchy. Even if it’s excruciating, don’t call her any more than is absolutely necessary, though the occasional “sext” is always welcome. And remember that a few sentimental phrases go a long way with your philosopher queen — even her pillow talk is rarely trite. If you want to keep her coming back for more, start her talking about Foucault and sexuality or Kant and beauty. And be honest — if you’re just trying to show off what you know, she’ll smell it from across the dinner table.

Most of all, don’t despair. Your Sagittarian may be a lone huntress, but she’s capable of falling hard. Show her you can fall in love without loosing yourself and you’re in for a simulating partnership of equals and friends. Platonic? Hardly. The archer gives sex it’s due, and there’s few times when she’s not ready to go. Just because she uses her brain doesn’t mean she ignores the animal desires below her waist. Vanilla may be fine at first, she’ll want to mix it up. Do something truly wet and wild, like straddle her face; make sure you return the favor. If all else fails, use your arms, legs, fingers and imagination to make her see you’re special. Sagittarius will always appreciate a sexy, creative lover.

What To Expect On A Lesbian Sagittarius Date