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The Leo woman has a regal air, and a good-natured bigness to her personality. The light she shines draws men and women like bees to honey. Leo is Sun-ruled, and her warmth at times seems supernatural, like she has her own secret light source. This gives her power to create and shine powerfully, asserting her presence in the world.
She’s the life of any party, wherever she goes, turning the most ho-hum places (like a bank queue) into a moment of levity. She is naturally vivacious, and generally fun to be with. Her nature is very giving, and she gives to herself most of all.
Leo women love to be admired for their special uniqueness. Win her by loving what’s unique about her style, her story, the way she lives. Show up on time, or face a reckoning. Respect is big with her, and being overlooked, underestimated, or taken for granted is not soon forgotten.
I’m not saying Leo is a gold-digger, but she loves fine things. If you’re able to lavish her with gold or anything fine, she takes notice. If you enjoy acquiring luxuries, this is something you’ll share. Her tastes are known for being extravagant, so choose that finer wine or chocolate, and make reservations at that elegant, upscale restaurant.
She is image-conscious, so any time spent on your own appearance is a plus. She wants to be proud to walk around with you. If you go beyond the prevailing casual look, this wins more points. Having your own unique style, like with a signature hat, goes far.
The Lioness especially loves visits to the spa and salon, or any gifts that pay homage to her mane (like vintage or well-made hair clips). A flower for her hair, in lieu of a corsage, is not too over-the-top. Take notice of her vanity table, for ideas for future presents.
Leo woman is pure fun. See if a game of Twister, or a scavenger hunt doesn’t bring out that playful kid. A special event to stir the imagination, like Cirque du Soleil, or walking a street fair with music, artists, pinwheels. Be sure to memorialize time together with a picture, portrait or song, that casts the memory, and her, in a magical light. Create an atmosphere of adventure in your relationship, where there’s always something to look forward to!
Leo woman is not all fun and games. She’s also one of the more ambitious of the Zodiac signs. Pay attention to her dreams for herself, and find ways to bolster her confidence toward achieving them. Every Lioness wants to put her personal stamp on her work. Help her refine her approach, and offer practical strategies for making it happen.
Find ways to remind Leo woman of that powerful spark that drives her. Many Leo women have no problem asserting themselves and being the one that dictates what goes on. But if something is eclipsing her sunny nature, you win her love by reminding her of that light within.
So you’ve met a Leo man… Get ready for an affair to remember.
Most men are visually-oriented, and Leo’s doubly so. That’s why it pays to take time to do up your hair and wear your most flattering outfit. Go ahead and bring out the glamour reserved for special nights, even if you’re going to the neighborhood Chinese place. The overall effect is key, and how confident you are with your own “presentation.” He’s enamored with a look, as the natural expression of who you are. So it’s all about exaggerating the unique way you shine, and being confident about who you are.
Leo men are show-oriented, that’s just all there is to it. He’s drawn to those that make him look good. This can be a fun social game, as the pair of you hit the town. He wants to show you off, and bask in the glory of having “caught” you. In the beginning, you might feel like royalty next to the “King,” showered with goodies and fun times. He’s hot headed and all-man, who is energizing to be around. He’s romantic, passionate, warm-hearted, and it could be the time of your life… while it lasts.
But Leo men are known to be eternal bachelors always on the hunt. Just ask Jerry Hall, whose Leo man Mick Jagger “never grew up,” even though she hoped he would. She’s a Cancer (July 2nd) who dazzled him as a total Texas original, a whole lotta woman, but in the end, that lion couldn’t be tamed. Leo men attract with their swagger and masculine bravado, their steamy hungry eyes. There’s a Leo quality of wanting to be the King of the pride, sought by many, and answerable to no one. It’s that sense of entitlement that’s both intoxicating and leads to lots of heartache.
That’s not to say a lion can’t be loyal. He’s got a true heart, when the timing is right (he’s matured) and your life together is epic and filled with dramatic love. A Leo wants life to be filled with celebrations and adventures. So if you’re full of joie de vivre, he’ll respond to that. Creating stand-out memories together will help form a strong bond. Another key is exploring different sides to who you are, and sharing that with him. When you take risks, he’ll champion your efforts. He appears confident, but needs lots of praise and attention. If you genuinely believe in him and respect him, it’ll show. You’ll have no problem pumping him up when he needs it.
If you’ve met a Leo, keep in mind that all the other planets have their say in his nature. For example, your Leo man might have an earth sign Moon (Capricorn, Taurus or Virgo), making him crave shared stability in his emotional life. Look also to Venus and Mars for clues on his complex nature. And above all, never let “what you’ve heard” about Leos keep you from taking a chance, and getting to know who he really is. Astrology gives us the outline of possibilities, but only in real life do we experience the energies play out.
Virgos are, perhaps, a bit virginal at times; but I find it’s more satisfying to focus on their commitment to service. After all, what is the basis of a solid relationship? Communication, communication, communication. Virgo has the art down pat, from the defensive “I” statements to the active listening. She’ll expect the same from you, so if you have a tendency to stretch the truth, move along. Once she finds out you’ve lied, she will escort you firmly from the premises. She may even be polite about it, but don’t be fooled: you’re finished. If, on the other hand, you can build trust and real security for your Virgo, she will treat you like a queen.
You may have a hard time getting her out on the dance floor, but once the spectacles come off and the hair comes down, she’ll have all the right moves in bed. Getting her there is will require some patience, as Virgos take a slow, well-documented path to love. You can start by joining a gym and cleaning up your credit report. From there, you should show off your stylishly decorated digs, well organized closet and array of vitamin supplements. If you see her start to tremble, you’ve won the first round. Seal the deal by asking her to work out with you. Go running together, challenge her to a tennis match, take her to the basketball court for some one-on-one. All that bouncing will get her blood pumping to the right places.
After you’ve taken a long bath or showered together, washing one another scented, organic soap, massage her with a hypoallergenic lotion and feed her grapes; just make sure they’re washed. When she’s finally relaxed, she’ll either show you the large collection of sex toys she keeps carefully hidden, or the erotic side of herself. Let her explore you, and tell her what you like — you’ll only need to say it once. Ever efficient, Virgos can sometimes operate with one hand, leaving the other free for note taking. Or, show her a diagram of a position you’ve always wanted to try — if anybody smart and flexible enough to master it, it’s your Virgo.
What To Expect On A Lesbian Virgo Date
- Multi-vitamins, ginkgo, and maybe some St. John’s Wart.
- A five mile run, followed by targeted strength training.
- Thirty minutes in the sauna, as prescribed by her naturopath.
- An organic chicken breast salad, with organic baby greens and a vinaigrette.
- Ginger tea and twenty minutes’ meditation.
- Okay, fine: you’re lucky, a trip to the art gallery, or an arthouse film.
- Service with a smile.
When Virgo came out of the closet, it was most likely to fetch a broom and dustpan. Don’t bother pursuing the immaculate Virgin unless your tone is tight, hair in place, and clothes freshly laundered. If you are frequently stopped by the fashion police on the way to the bar, don’t expect to get very far with picky, pristine Virgo.
Impossible to please, compulsively critical, and constantly vexed by minor irritants, Virgos will get on best with cat lovers, an animal sharing many of the same traits. Awkward and shy need not apply; but if you’ve got a mind like a file cabinet and have a career in design, you just might be able to get inside those carefully ironed and starched boxers.
You’ll do better with Virgo if you’re an eager slave seeking a controlling master, than a boy-toy hunting a sugar-daddy; Virgo is as frugal as he is meticulous. Expect vacations together to include a lot of coupon-clipping, off-beach resorts, and organized tour groups.
Sex with Virgo can be a sterile affair, though not necessarily passionless; the Virgin wants to be entertained more than anything in bed, so theatrical romps which include a rich fantasy factor are in order. Leave the messy stuff like food fetishes at home; the average Virgo won’t have anything to do with untidy foreplay.
Bring some creativity to the game, make him feel like Madonna, and Virgo will be eating out of your hand-or any other freshly scrubbed part of your body. Looking good in latex will be a plus, and don’t be afraid to suggest that he tie you up.
How To Attract Gay Virgo
Virgos, like elephants, never forget, and you’ll want to brush up your on your Harry Lorayne Memory Power courses, if you expect to keep track of the exhaustive list of your lover’s preferences. He’ll be very likely to entertain a zen for a particular brand of gourmet macadamia nut, or some exotic unknown drink; memorizing these for gift purposes will put you on his “A-list”
The best way to attract Virgo is to be perfect. Failing that, however, be able to absorb “constructive” criticism and be attentive to his whims. Let his harsher needling roll off your back, or you’ll be in for a rough ride.
Gay Virgo Quirks & Erogenous Zones
The center of Virgo’s energetic life is the navel Chakra, and most Virgins will go absolutely nuts with your tongue in his belly button. Linger in the region for several tantalizing laps, before moving on to more serious things. Expect to make the first move with Virgo, but take things slow and give him a chance to play coy with you.
Despite an unapproachable exterior, once won over Virgo is a zesty and athletic lover, more likely to prefer the bottom position than top. Once you’ve deflowered him, he’s likely to stay loyal-until you disappoint him. A betrayed Virgo can be somewhat vicious, so take care with his heart if he’s generous enough to give it to you.
What To Expect On A Gay Virgo Date
A trip to the gym for a workout session is a good way to warm up with health-nut Virgo. Although he is known for showing a little roundness around his own waist, he’ll want you to be chiseled like an Athenian statue. Shower well afterward, if you plan to get close to finicky Virgo. B.O. is a definite no-no.
Intimate bike rides along lonely woodland trails can be a good way to get to know Virgo…and who knows what will happen when you take a breather at the trailhead? You might wind up breathing heavier than you thought!
For evening excursions, theater is the diversion of choice. Tickets to Rent, if you can possibly get them, are guaranteed to get his normally restrained soft side to surface. Inside of every Virgo is a New Yorker columnist yearning to burst out.
Avoid taking him to the Rocky Horror Picture Show, however, as Virgo is unlikely to be amused by the flying hot dogs and public humiliation of the “virgins” to the show. And you certainly don’t want him to get a crush on Rocky, who is most definitely Virgo’s type.
Dutch treat is the norm with budget-minded Virgo, and you’ll want to stop in at an inexpensive but classy diner rather than an elegant four-star gourmet restaurant. Odds are he’ll find fault with the cuisine and décor wherever you go, so may as well keep him content with a smaller check.
If your love interest is a Virgo woman, it helps to know what a confounding, exquisite bird she is. Her physical presence is alluring, so finely tuned and all-natural. You’ll sense not to rush in too quickly. She’s picky in many ways, and this helps her keep her standards high. In love, she uses cool discernment to observe, take mental notes, and this takes time. The traits she’s looking for are integrity, kindness and inner strength. She steers clear of loose cannons, lazy or apathetic types, and those with no moral compass.
The Virgin is self-contained, whole. She stands apart, and can seem cold, but it’s because she needs to stay clear in order to make constant refinements to her body, mind and spirit. Her body is like a subtle antennae, picking up signals about how to go forward. This can lead to what seems like peculiar rigidity with the routine. She can eat some things, but not others, and it gets complicated. It pays to be perceptive, and become aware of her dining habits, as it’ll dictate where you can go on dates. You’ll get extra points for making the sensible choice.
Her focus is precise, and that’s why she’ll appreciate your notice of the little things. She doesn’t like upsetting surprises, so don’t make a spectacle on her birthday in a public place. What deepens her affection is the way you bring ease to her life, and encourage her never-ending plans for self-improvement.
The Virgo woman is smart, and likes to follow a rational line of thinking. You’ll impress her by speaking intelligently, with good grammar. She’s not one to agree just to stroke your ego, and she’ll be questioning until all the facts are well-researched. She’s not one to do backflips over an idea, and that lack of passion can be deflating. But if you prove over time that you’re mentally competent, her respect for your opinion will shine through.
The Virgin has an instinct for wholeness, and that is how she approaches love and dating. She’s looking for true love and a life filled with everyday magic. She’ll be deciding whether you can be woven into the tapestry of her life. It has to feel organic, while making practical sense in the day-to-day.
Being calm, cool and collected is a good start. He’s the epitome of emotional self-restraint, and will take his sweet time getting to know you. He’ll be wary of instant bonding and may come across as disinterested at first. Try to avoid first date faux pas like getting drunk and sloppy with your boundaries, or bringing out your relationship skeletons.
This guy likes to analyze, and will notice if you follow, or feign interest, in his intricate train of thought. He’s likely got detailed solutions for social problems and strong opinions about how others behave. The Virgo man won’t shy away from an intellectual debate, but will show disgust if it turns into a tense argument.
He doesn’t like coarseness, so try to hold back the F-word until you know him better. He’s big into etiquette, and may have a strong reaction to bad manners in public. Stay sharp and observant so you can pick up his likes and dislikes — showing you were paying attention wins points with the Virgo man. Give some thought to his practical needs, and show you care that way.
He’ll appreciate a put-together look, and will notice that you took special care with your appearance. That same eye for detail may zoom right in on a stain that others don’t see. To attract the discriminating eye of a Virgo man, good grooming is a must.
Don’t press this guy for sentimentality. If he doesn’t make a big deal about your relationship anniversary, remember all the little things he does day to day. He’s got a steady nature and won’t want too much drama. He likes order, routine and keeping his life under control. Get involved with his daily routine, and soon you’ll be integrated into his life.
He’s a true hermit, so don’t force too much togetherness. His Sun sign destiny is to achieve self-containment, and this requires a lot of solitude. Give him the freedom to go off and do his own thing, and he’ll keep coming back.
She may appear cool and demure, but rest assured Libras are playful and passionate — and many of them love to be dominated. In good time, of course. As a lover, you bring pros and cons to the game, and it’s going to take her some time to sort through which are which. She’s a social animal, so be prepared to tag along to her favorite nightspots so she can show you off to her friends. Wear something pretty and buy a round of shots — trust me, this will stand you in good stead the next day, when she solicits her friends’ opinions. She’ll never send you away without a fair trial, nor will she simply invite you in. First, you will have to play a delicate game two steps forward, one step back. Whether you win or loose, you’ll have a fun time trying to balance Libra’s scales.
Don’t let me convince you Libra is cold — far from it, her sign is in the seventh house of partnerships. She people for conversation, and to admire her luscious lips and winning dimples. A Libra wants nothing more to balance out her life with a committed partner, one who can draw out her better qualities. In pursuit of that goal, she’s an artist of love, stylish and sensual. She may attract you with her languid walk and easy charm, but it’s up to you lure her from her pedestal. If you can engage her in a long, constructive conversation, you’re halfway there. Never try to argue with a Libra, especially during courtship — nothing could be as unattractive as an unruly temper.
Follow up by sending her flowers at work; it may seem like a cliche, but she won’t be able to resist the attention. When you’re ready to seal the deal, take her out for inventive cocktails and her favorite DJ. A relaxing night of fun will stimulate her playful side — she may even share her toys with you. In bed and life, Libra likes to balance things out, so she’ll make sure you’re both satisfied. She’ll enjoy the equality of the classic 69; if you’re both feeling limber and adventurous, try the cat’s cradle. Just don’t leave her hanging, or you’re liable to end up in jail.
What To Expect On A Lesbian Libra Date
- Lots of questions. Why don’t you just hand over your CV.
- A solid thirty minutes selecting a restaurant.
- Dithering over the menu selection — Chicken or fish?
- Sharing your entree, and getting a taste in return.
- Frothy cocktails and fresh wit.
- Splitting the bill.
- Hours of gentle touching and kissing.
The therapist of the Zodiac, Libras are widely prized for their “Prozac” effect on more highly-strung types, particularly Fire elementals. The only astrological sun sign represented by an inanimate object, namely, a set of scales, Librans are gifted with a talent for two-way communication critical to promoting balance and perspective in the face of raging fires.
Presided over by Venus, Goddess of Love, Librans have a unique knack for empathy as well as romantic connections, and often wind up together, like a pair of oxygen atoms linking up to form the molecule of Life.
A natural though often reluctant leader, Libras reign in the arts of communication. Diplomatic, charming and devoted to peace, he also tends to be a bit of a sucker and incurable flirt. These failings come from his habit of seeing both sides to every story, and from his sense of universal love, in which no adoring suitor is wholly unworthy.
Libras mate for life…the question is, with how many different partners? Despite craving lasting relationships for stability’s sake, Librans often get off the seesaw just to see it fly up.
While holding an idealistic loyalty to a partner, Librans have little sales resistance, especially when the product is flesh in his face. Some couples solve this problem by adding a third partner, or a fourth, or a roomful of sweaty strangers, or entire cruise ships including the Captain and all the crew…
How To Attract Gay Libra
Libra can generally be found at the center of a small crowd, most often in bohemian coffee or book shops. He’ll stand out as a patient listener, which is unusual for those with a tendency to gab.
Perennial students of human nature, Librans feel obligated to give every member of the human race (and frequently animals as well) at least a few moments of attention. Having been shanghaied in the past by long-winded time thieves, however, he’ll curtly cut you off if your communication does not meet his exacting standards.
Lead Libra into a new realm of speculation, and the rapid-fire exchange of ideas can pass the night away with scarcely a notice of dawn. Nothing appeals to Libra quite so much as a dynamic meeting of the minds, and he’s not likely to take your body very seriously if he’s not impressed with what you pack between your ears.
Masters of the meandering topic, Librans enjoy discussing politics, religion, and philosophy in an offbeat and provocative way. Science, books, and of course, astrology are also great to bring up, if the dialogue is getting stale. Librans generally abhor a silence, and think aloud even when alone; so do your best to break those pregnant pauses.
Gay Libra Quirks & Erogenous Zones
He’s in a constant state of arousal and secretly wants to rock the world, so if you don’t bore him to flaccidity, it shouldn’t be hard to get things cooking. He enjoys a one-night celebration as much as anyone, but if he wants to see you a second time, he’s probably got a serious crush.
In love with love, Libra has an innate need to pair up, so he’s thinking about tomorrow even if you’re just cruising.
Typically endowed with juicy, rounded buttocks that beg to be groped, Librans are easily aroused by any sort of back rub, and not likely to protest if the massage wanders below the waist.
A yen for oral arts extends to the bedroom as well, where Libra is widely renowned as an enthusiastic participant on either end of the transaction, or, preferably, both. A slow, passionate lover who enjoys service for the pleasure it brings him, he’s more given to prolonged foreplay, than to exhausting acrobatics in the bedroom.
What To Expect On A Gay Libra Date
Librans don’t date; they interview. By the end of the evening, you’ll be able to complete each other’s stories. Don’t interrogate him, though, or you’re prone to run across his pet peeve. He’ll answer an intelligent question or two, but expects you to intuit the truth or be content to live without it, if he deigns to keep details to himself.
Libra is eager to share the details of his unique study of the human condition, handing over his life’s story like last week’s paperback, but only in the fashion and order which suits his sense of plot development.
Librans go Dutch, as a rule; besides having a general affinity for the Netherlands, economic exchanges between lovers are tantamount to marriage. If you do decide to live together (lucky you!), he’ll be expecting to merge finances, life goals and wardrobes with his partner, moving through life as one unified body.
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